Can you remember the last time you were kind to another person? What did you say or do to show your kindness? Did you celebrate a special occasion with them, listen to them, help them with a project or give them a compliment?
Kindness is a great attribute to own and some people naturally express good will to others. Most of us are busy with our lives and kindness never seems to be a top priority. It’s not that we are mean, rather our busyness takes over and we don’t consciously think about showing kindness to another person. We just have too much to do. What if there were benefits to this “kindness” thing.
Lately when I asked someone “what have you been doing,” I’ve received the response “same old, same old.” I heard that expression many years ago but not in recent years. Why is this expression resurrecting again? I’m not sure, but I have a strong reaction to the expression “same old, same old.” Why would anyone want to acknowledge that everything is the same old stuff. Sounds depressing to me.
Then I thought whether this expression offers a sense of familiarity and comfort to one’s life, that life is the same and nothing major has occurred to shift it into a negative direction.