When we think of clutter, we usually visualize a packed or messy physical space. Rarely do we give much thought to the emotional clutter we hold onto on a daily basis. This undefined clutter actually blocks us from moving forward in what we want to do. This clutter automatically says “NO” to life.
For me, recognizing how I say “no” in my life, opened the door for more “yes” to enter. I’m not a major complainer, but definitely have my share of anxieties or false beliefs regarding who I am and what other people think of me. I don’t want to accumulate any more “no’s” in my life. I want to say “yes” to life.
What are some of the ways we diminish our lives with our emotional clutter:
**We block what we really want in our lives
**We have a low self-image because we are filled with this emotional garbage
**We carry around a lot of stress and our bodies respond by breaking down under the weight of the clutter
**We miss out on important relationships
**React instead of respond to life’s challenges. Reacting leaves us powerless, whereas stopping long enough to think how you want to respond provides you with more advantage in your life
**We are unhappy, depressed and don’t know where to turn
Life is in constant change yet as we journey we start to collect and hold on to people, places, things, and are reluctant to release this stuff. Under the guise of security, we hold on to our things, thoughts and emotions. We attach who we are by this stuff.
What can we do?
The delight in life comes when we let go of the physical and emotional stuff we carry around with us. Try these three simple steps to help you de-clutter your emotions.
**Make a list of all of your complaints, fears, anxieties, beliefs that hold you back, and pet peeves around other people’s behaviors. This helps you increase an awareness of what you are holding onto in your head and heart. You release the burden in your head when you park the extra baggage on a piece of paper or a computer screen.
**Review your list and decide what small steps you will take today to clear up the emotional clutter on your list. Keep it small and manageable. For example, maybe you put down complaining as junk in your emotional closet. You can make a decision to stop yourself from complaining once during the day for the next 7 days. You built the accumulation of emotional over time, so you can slowly de-clutter your life.
**At the end of the day, create a ritual that closes your day where you wash away the tensions of the day. For some it could be a warm bath, read spiritual books, or have a cup of tea. Set up a ritual that tells your brain it’s time to let go of the extra bits of emotional clutter you have accumulated during the day. Visualize yourself brushing away the emotional clutter.
**Your emotions are telling you what needs to change. If you see them as a reflection of where you are at and what to work on, you can be the observer and decide to change your thoughts, behaviors, beliefs. Use your emotions as guideposts in creating breathing space in your life.
**Emotional de-cluttering provides us with more power in our lives.
**When we start to take ownership of our lives, it can get a bit overwhelming. You don’t need to travel down this road alone. Get an “emotional buddy” who wants to de-clutter their lives. If you need professional guidance, don’t hesitate to take care of yourself. The goal is to let go of the emotional baggage you carry and other resources can be invaluable to your growth.
What About You?
**Do you feel that you need to start de-cluttering the unnecessary emotions fueled by useless beliefs?
**Where in your life do you hold the most emotional clutter?
**Have you found a way to release yourself from the bondage of wasted emotions? Would love to hear how you did it.
“To fully enjoy the ‘richness’ of our lives, we need to stop long enough to visit with ourselves.”
Thanks for your help.
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