I’ve been thinking lately how I make decisions and then feel locked into them because I said ‘yes.’  Yet, my insides squirm thinking I have to do something I don’t want to do.  Am I really locked into that decision?  Can I rightfully change my mind…of course I can.  The question is whether I do.

I find my friends, as well as myself, collect beliefs around how we should be living our lives and what others should be doing.   The culprit at the foundation of these beliefs is ‘should.”   “Should” locks us into viewpoints that influence the decisions we make or don’t make.    I want to challenge the belief that we can’t change our minds once we make a decision.